Hiya Brockstar, I'm so sorry you are going through this. People can be SO insensitive! Two days after I misscarried my twins I bumped into a wife of a man who worked for my parents (she has five children), and instead of asking how I was the first thing out of her mouth was 'oh I heard you misscarried did you see anything come out?'. I was completely floored, I hardley knew this woman this hardcore member of church who had the sensitivity of a hammer. I was lucky enough to get pregnant again three months later and I have endometriosis so I was extremely lucky. You just need to surround yourself with people who have compassion and understanding so thats what we are here for. People don't know what to say I guess but I'd rather they said nothing in that case rather than the old "it wasnt meant to be" etc.
Just let yourself grieve and try again when you feel strong enough emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. All the best - big hug!