Hi Brockstar,

So sorry you've had a m/c and are missing your little angel. It's almost a year now since my miscarriage and it's starting to all come back to me, so I'm struggling a bit at the moment, although it's not as raw as what you are going through at this point in time.

Anger - how I can relate. I was so angry at the world, the obst and how he treated me during this time - even the fact that I had to have a D&C and 'I let it happen'. Please know this is a normal part of the grief process and you have every right to be feeling angry. You need to just go with how you are feeling.

I went back to work about a week after my m/c, stayed half a day, decided I couldn't yet cope or stop crying, so I had another week off. You are the best person to judge what you need, so go with it and take care of you. Saying that it's probably hard with a little one, but maybe just cuddling each other will help the both of you and reassure your DS that you will be ok?

Friends of mine made a care bag after I m/c. It contained a teddy bear who now sits on my bed and through 'him' I hug my angel. I know of others who have planted trees etc, so this may be something you may like to think about when you are ready. For me it's a physical representation of what I've lost and it helps me.

Sorry, this has been long - I'm rambling and crying.

Thinking of you and your family.