Kateo - about the wrens - yes, we noticed butterflies and birds. I think somehow in our grief, we notice the smaller things. Possibly they were always there before, but because day to day life can be so consuming, we don't notice. I am so sorry to hear about your friend.... what a terrible time now and for some time to come for his family. Good to hear you had a nice time away too, it can really help. Fingers crossed for those two lines....