I’m so sorry for your loss, I don’t totally know how you feel but I can understand the emptiness you must be feeling. I pray that you and you DH will stay strong and he can also understand the way you are feeling. Make sure you talk with him about your feelings as you need as much support as you can get and it may be difficult for him to understand as he didn’t have the bonding that you established. I know that I wouldn’t have the same feelings as my DW would have if we had a loss at that early stage and I’d want her to express to me how she was feeling. Not that you have said how your DH is feeling, but I just wanted you to have an opinion from a males point of view.
Also something you may like to take a look at is a book called; Nine Days in Heaven: The Vision of Marietta Davis