I don't know when to tell you that it gets better or goes back to normal. I had my m/c almost three weeks ago and I feel that i have good days and not so good days. You'll get through this ( I tell myself this all of the time) and things will get better, but you did lose a child - it's a horrible thing to deal with. This place, though has shown me I'm not alone and that is a great comfort. There are so many supportive people here who have such kind things to say. Hang in there.