Thanks for your kind words Lynn. You are right, it is so hard to know what to do, for me anyway. As Thomas was 19 weeks we had no funeral (they have to be 20 weeks), so I kind of felt like people didn't think of him as a real baby, the term is late miscarraige at that stage, even though you could see a perfect little baby with hands, feet, etc.

I can see you are about to welcome another precious baby, congratulations and good luck!!This baby will mean so much because you have been through so much to have it, and you will appreciate him/her and every moment even more, which I believe is the gift our angel babies leave us.