Hi Lestyrox,
Sorry to hear of your loss

I too suffered a m/c on the same weekend as you. It broke our hearts. Trying again can be a difficult descision. You will know in your heart when you are ready. We decided to try straight away as we have been trying for 15 months and it was the closest we have ever got, it gave us a bit of hope.

I thought emotionally that i was ready, but when it came time to dtd for the first time i found it extremely hard. I had focused so much negative energy on that part of my body that having to dtd made me feel ill.

I spoke about it with close friends and they (and some lovely girls here at BB) helped me through. My thoughts were that my desire to have a healthy baby out weighted the fear of another m/c.

Take care of youself, grieve as much as you need too. I hope when the time comes again you are blessed with a sticky one.