What that woman at work said to you was awful.. People have no idea. Unfortunately that probably wont be the most hurtful comment you will hear.. The good old 'Your young, you will have more' is one I got alot and it really upset me because I could have 10 more babies and I will still want Taite and Seth.. It really isn't fair and I am sure many of us can relate to you.. When our babies died the whole plan was lost.. The future.. I am not back at work and people always tell me I need a job and I need to think about what I am going to do, but the truth is I am sad and I shouldn't have to think about it.. I should be a mum to live babies.. My babies shouldn't have died.. I just can't express my sadness for you I am so sorry you have to go through this. Just remember you are not alone and do not let anyone make you feel bad about trying for another baby.. Only you and your partner can decide that whether it is straight away or whenever and anyone that has a brain and that knows you will know you are not trying to replace him.. I will admit losing a baby may make you re evaluate friendships,