I love lighting candles for Maddison and other angel babies.
I think it has helped me with my grieving process.
I think its a great idea to write out all your questions. I did as well.
What are the chances of it happening again? And if so what will happen next time
Can I do any thing different in my next pregnancy.
I found after having Maddison there were so many things that I wish the hospital had done differently. After 2 months I returned to the hospital and spoke to the midwives in the ward where Maddison was born. I told them the good and the bad. They seemed to take it on board and said that unless they are given feedback then they never know if what they are doing is ok. And it is true until you have lost a baby you don't know what is helpful and what is not. I also made a little sign to hang up in the room for future families. http://forums.bellybelly.com.au/foru...ng-advice.html
After doing this I felt I had a lot of closure and was able to move on and just remember Maddison as the beautiful baby that she was with out any negative feelings.
Best of luck. I hope you get the answers you are looking for xx
Last edited by Nelle; July 8th, 2009 at 12:26 AM.
: Just editing out signature with ticker :)
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