I too am so so sorry for your loss. I'm sending you lots of :hugs: hugs:

We also lost our first child, our daughter Ava, at 18 weeks 4 days. None of the drs I have spoken with will say if it was IC or not and are not willing to put in the stitch either. I had very painful cramps for a week before my waters broke. Noone at the hospital checked to see if I was dialating or an ultrasound, nothing. Was sent home to wait and go into labour. 11 day later still nothing, was induced after u/s confirmed not a drop of fluid.

I also think that putting in the stitch and not needing it is better than them saying again, oops, we should have put the stitch in for you this time.

We have been trying for 2 months but it took us 14 months to fall with Ava anyway. My new Ob wants to see me weekly. And yes I will be one of those crazy pregnant ladies if any of the same signs start next time.

Hope you get what you need from your Dr. If you have more quieries I'm here anytime.
Take care and happy baby dancing!

Ava Lesley 18 weeks 4 days
Stanas