Hugs sweetie, grieve as you need to, a loss is a loss no matter what gestation..... and vent any time. Glad you complained about the sonographer - that behaviour is unacceptable. Ask to get a different one next time too, or go somewhere else if you have the option.

Keep strong and keep believing, it will happen.

Go gently as you grieve your little angels, and praying for you for this time and your appointment tomorrow.

Uhm, just wondering whether you've thought about expectant management, if this little bubba doesn't stay? I was all ready for a D&C with my first m/c at 8 weeks, but the obs encouraged me ( also an old chook) to not have a D&C ( obviously it was appropriate medically in my circumstances). I am really glad that I ended up being encouraged to have that opportunity to say goodbye. Yes it was hard, but not quite as clinical as a D&C. Anyway, just thought I'd mention it.