hi Mishyy, i am so sorry for you loss.I lost my baby girl on the 11-11-08 at 28wks i had a emergency c-section and my dh and i feel the same way about trying asap we have also had the comments about trying to replace chloe but that is not the way we feel we just beleive that this a step we need to do to move on. so do what ever your heart desires i beleive that we know what is right for us.big hugs to you.
Don't get me wrong nobody has said anything about replacing our baby, it's just something that has entered my mind that people will think this.... I guess all these emotions are coming and going and i just need time to get my head around it.
I will for sure join you ladies at TTC after Late Loss as soon as hubby and i start trying again.
My bleeding has pretty much stopped now so can someone tell me when we can start trying??? Can we start now or do i have to wait until AF arrives?? I need to know on a medically based as i'm physically/emotionally/mentally ready, just not sure when "medically" we are able to start again...
I lost my little one at 18/19 wks and your right...........it is hard
My DH and i were the same with wanting to start trying again straight away. There is nothing wrong with it.
Its probably best to wait one cycle before ttc again. It also might take a few months before you start ovulating proparly again, thats what happened to me.
I hope it all goes well and you are holding a precious bundle very soon
So sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my little girl on 29/10 and DH and I have decided to TTC soon, we felt the same about wanting to start straight away, I think it's quite a natural feeling and something I'm sure most will understand. I hope you get the facts about what happened with your pregnancy and some helpful information for next time. All the very best. As dd0207 said, come & join our thread in TTC after late miscarriage.
Mishyy, I'm so sorry for you loss. It's so completely devistating it can't even be put into words.
I recently lost our little baby angel on the 11/12 at 18 weeks.
During a monthly checkup the Dr's found that his little heart and stopped beating, i was admitted into hospital the next morning and put into labour. We're unsure as to what has happened as yet but have so far been told he had a lot of deformaties and nature just took it's course, but it's still so hard. I miss my little bump and feel completely empty, like i'm missing a limb.
My partner and I are also wanting to TTC again ASAP and I have had pangs of guilt about replacing our little one, especially when i could start TTC now if i could, (but had been advised to wait for tests to come back, and for my cycle to return to normal), even though that isn't the case at all, we love out little baby so much.
I wish you all the luck in the future for TTC, and hope you are blessed with a little baby as soon as you're ready.
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