hi Mishyy, i am so sorry for you loss.I lost my baby girl on the 11-11-08 at 28wks i had a emergency c-section and my dh and i feel the same way about trying asap we have also had the comments about trying to replace chloe but that is not the way we feel we just beleive that this a step we need to do to move on. so do what ever your heart desires i beleive that we know what is right for us.big hugs to you.