Our Loss

[kristi14]

So sorry to hear of your loss

I lost my little one at 18/19 wks and your right...........it is hard

My DH and i were the same with wanting to start trying again straight away. There is nothing wrong with it.

Its probably best to wait one cycle before ttc again. It also might take a few months before you start ovulating proparly again, thats what happened to me.

I hope it all goes well and you are holding a precious bundle very soon

[Berry1]

Hi Mishyy,

So sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my little girl on 29/10 and DH and I have decided to TTC soon, we felt the same about wanting to start straight away, I think it's quite a natural feeling and something I'm sure most will understand. I hope you get the facts about what happened with your pregnancy and some helpful information for next time. All the very best. As dd0207 said, come & join our thread in TTC after late miscarriage.

Love
Berry

[tempus moriendi]

I"m so sorry you had to go through all that. Sometimes life just isn't fair or kind. Sending you a cyberhug and keeping you in my prayers.

[Footsteps]

im sorry for your loss.
xxx

[helle]

Mishyy, I'm so sorry for you loss. It's so completely devistating it can't even be put into words.

I recently lost our little baby angel on the 11/12 at 18 weeks.
During a monthly checkup the Dr's found that his little heart and stopped beating, i was admitted into hospital the next morning and put into labour. We're unsure as to what has happened as yet but have so far been told he had a lot of deformaties and nature just took it's course, but it's still so hard. I miss my little bump and feel completely empty, like i'm missing a limb.

My partner and I are also wanting to TTC again ASAP and I have had pangs of guilt about replacing our little one, especially when i could start TTC now if i could, (but had been advised to wait for tests to come back, and for my cycle to return to normal), even though that isn't the case at all, we love out little baby so much.

I wish you all the luck in the future for TTC, and hope you are blessed with a little baby as soon as you're ready.

xx

[Mishyy]

I'm so sorry for your losses ladies - nothing can be more painful than losing a child, unborn or not.

I have an appointment on thursday so hopefully we will get some answers as to what happened.

Giving everyone hugs.

[Lisa]

Mishy & Teagz,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious angesl.
If you and your DH/DF feel you want another baby... don't let other's opinions stop you for TTC. After I lost Noah I was told I could start TTC from my first regular AF cycle, but to wait a year for the mental side of it all because they wanted me to get past Noah's first anniversary before trying again.
I took on board the medical side and from my first regular AF, DH and I started TTC again. We conceived Harrison on my 3rd cycle. It was difficult at first emotionally, because in a way I felt like I was betraying Noah... and Harrison was also due 12 days before Noah's 1st anniversary. It really was a bittersweet moment when I first got that BFP. DH & I were over the moon though, and now we're blessed with the most amazing little guy! I believe that Harrison helped me through my grief as my DH & I tried for 14 months for Noah... then we lost him. We both ached for a baby that we could bring home and hold in our arms. I am happy that we had Harrison when we did, he brought joy to us after we had so much sorrow.

Thinking of you both

[Angel Babies 3]

I am truely sorry to read of your loss. I too have lost a child at 16 weeks although for different reason. My heart goes out to you.
Take care,
Hugs
Debbie