partner blames me

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Huge hugs hun :hugs: I am so sorry for your loss.
You have come to the right place for support and understanding.
Maybe your partner is grieving and is looking for someone or something to blame, iykwim. Im not sure, but either way I really think the way he is/has reacted is wrong and i would be devastated too.

My Dh didn't care about my m/c really, of course he didnt like to see me hurting but to him they weren't 'really' babies and as he wasn't around (away working) he said he isn't affected at all. It hurt to hear him say this. Our 6 little angel babies are just as real as DS, they just grew their wings early, this is what i tell DH.


Please rember this is definately NOT your fault, you are not too blame and never let yourself think that you are ok. Take care and i pray you find the strength to get through this terrible time. We are all here to support you when you need it.