Hi Sadwombat, I am so sorry for your loss...big hugs!

I had a missed m/c back in July and had a D&C the next day, didn't feel any pain just a mild cramps and very little bleeding. But I can definitely relate to you about the pain when you pee, it is so very unbearable especially at night for some reason. At the time, I thought I had Urine attracted infection, but it was all fine..luckily the pain eased off in about 3 days.

Its not the most pleasant thing when you are also going through the emotional hell, so do take care of yourself and hope the physical pain will be gone soon.