Hi there, just wanted to send my best wishes for you. My baby died at 8 weeks on about the 23rd of January. This was my first pregnancy and maybe my last - just don't think I can go thu this again. I can barely look at my sister who is about 6 months pregnant cause it reminds me. I live in a small country town with limited health services and inexperienced doctors who gave me zero compassion - words like 'we knew this was going to happen' simply don't help. No one even told me what to expect with a miscarriage - the term 'products' DOES NOT HELP! Had to travel 650 km by bumpy road with a missed abortion, rather than sit around for 6 days waiting in pain waiting for the traumatic event. Life is cruel.
I encourage all women to have ultrasounds rather than vaginal examinations - they are a barbaric out-dated procedure than gives very limited information and certainly no more than what an ultrasound can give. Be strong and ask for other options!
Thank you for this website, it has been a life -aver for me - I feel so alone.