Oh Hun, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It is so sad.
My dr told me to wait until my second baby m/c at 11wks, I had no hb or anything either. I waited for 2 wks and just couldn't do it anymore. I had slight spotting, but nothing substantial. I ended up asking for a d&c. I had one last scan and confirmed that my bub was no longer. It was painful to go through it all agian, but I figured it would be worse to wait even longer wondering 'what if...' which is what I was doing even though I was told in no unertain terms that there was no chance of a viable pg.
Only you can know what to do it is your body and your sanity in the end. Maybe you should tell your DH how you feel about wanting him around for a few days? At least you will have more support maybe can take your mind off it a bit?

BIG :hugs: