Hi Everyone
thanks for you messages - they are so comforting to read.

i have decided to have another scan next week - then if things are worse - meaning the baby has gotten smaller - then i will go ahead and have the d&c

other than that i dont know - but at least i feel like i have half a plan.

if the baby is really not viable it should be getting smaller - so that will help me feel comfortable in making the decison to end the pregnancy.

if there has been any growth than i think i will wait.

but that is just what i think today - i am an emotional rollercoaster - it sounds so terrible but i worry about how long it might take if there is no hope - because we want to try again withh another ivf cycle.

this is such a long hard road at the moment ...

.x