oh you poor thing - i really feel for you, its so so hard.
try this website, it helped me when i was waiting:
The Misdiagnosed Miscarriage Site
oh you poor thing - i really feel for you, its so so hard.
try this website, it helped me when i was waiting:
The Misdiagnosed Miscarriage Site
I'm so sorry for your loss. I think the waiting is the worst torture on top of all your grief.
I had a D&C last weekend after waiting a month for things to happen on their own, it was unbelievably difficult to wake up every day and wonder if this was the day "it" would happen. In the end it was sending me crazy and I asked for the surgery.
In saying that, I think the time I waited also helped me to come to terms with what had happened so that when I finally had the D&C I was kind of ready. Sounds a bit strange.
Either way I think it's very important you have another scan to be sure, it might also give you some idea of what's happening inside when your body's not giving you any clues.
Please take care of yourself, do visit that website Catrionalee mentioned, I also found it helpful when all I wanted to do was read about how other people had coped. It also gives you some detailed stories of the process of miscarrying which can be difficult to find.
Be kind to yourself and take the time you need to get through this. My thoughts are with you.
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