I am sorry to read of things like this! You are doing all you can by being there for her but remember you have to grieve too..... I feel so sad for you all..

Know we are all thinking of you and your friend and her family, the next few weeks/month will be really difficult for everyone, you will never forget but it will get easier wiith time I have had 2 brothers die in the past and there is not a day i dont think about them but now (20yrs and 10 years later) i mainly think of all the good things in their short lives and not so much about their deaths, jut what they brought to our lives and how they both have made me the person i am today!

If you need to talk feel free to PM me.