Oh Bellsbaby, hugs to you for your loss :hugs:

I would listen to those who are supportive like your DH... take as much time as you can!! I can only imagine how hard that would be to go back to a maternity related job- for me it was bad enough going back to the pub i worked in.

There is no right or wrong time to "get better" and some will say, you will never be the same normal again, just a different kind of ok- does that make sense? Emotions run very high at times like this, and for a long time you will be reminded of your loss, due dates and angelversaries and memories, they never go away, we just deal with them easier, and it takes time.

From your sig i can see you only just lost little Billy, and so it is very normal to still be sad, dont worry about the people who think you should be "getting over it" right away, your body is still adjusting and your emotions will take as long as you need.

Stick with the people who are supporting you, and the best advice i have heard, is "Cry when you need to, Scream when you need to, and Smile when and only if you feel like it" You cant rush your healing by pretending everything is ok, just go with the flow of your feelings, and the cloud will lift in time.

Take care
xoxoxoxox
StarBright