Oh bells, my heart goes out to you.

Truth is you will never be "normal" - there will always be a precious little part of you that you never got to meet.

There is no "normal" for "getting over" a miscarriage. I still have breakdowns and sob for hours on end sometimes.

Its no-ones business as to how long it takes you to face work again, you need to take all the time YOU need, not what anyone else thinks you need. No one else can understand exactly what you are going through!

With my last mc i took a week off and then went back to work - only to have a few days off again about a week later. I just couldnt handle it - especially with so many happy pregnant women around!

And i am sure i will have a few days off in June (for both of their due dates) i dont think i will be able to be bothered with anyone at that time. June would have been my first mc's 1st bday (8th) and due date for my second mc(15th). I dotn expect ill ever get over that.

Just cry, cry, cry, cry, and when you are ready, face work. But dont put expectations on yourself that you have to be back at work, period. you can alwasy take more time off if you need it. Even if you go home halfway through the day that you were supposed to go back!!

Big hugs, sending you all the strength i can muster.....