*nods head* Jovie even does it to her big sister.... and we get the hair pulling tumbling girl fights over it.

You know Lu, when M was at Montessori, I loved it, but it was the playground issues that left a bad taste in my mouth. The girls would pick on Matilda. I still remember the screaming meltdowns over the fact that I didn't wear skirts.... I remember her laying in the bathroom screaming and vomitting and it took 3 hours to calm her down (the meltdown started when I picked her up) and it was all due to a girl telling her that "girls wear skirts, if you aren't wearing a skirt, you aren't a girl". Matilda hated skirts until that day. And now its an issue getting her to not wear skirts...