ok so after some suggestions, some googling and a chat to a peadiatrition they are now looking at hugh functioning autsim god I wish they would make up their minds, I guess they were doing what I was telling them to do, I actully had never heard of HFA & in no way do i understand it, I do know that I am going to have calm down a bit & learn to be gentle with her, learn to not get so frustrated

how do you do that