Hi Freya, yes DD does sometimes look you in the eye too but mainly if she comes and tells you something. If you are trying to initiate a conversation with her though she won't do it.
i'm going to see what going the child health clinic road is like but if there are big delays I'll have to just get a referral to a specialist I think. But yes they're sooo expensive aren't they. I have to take DS to a paed on monday and it's costing $275.
DD's teacher is very switched on about sensory disorders etc. DD had a little boy in her class last year who has aspergers. Her teacher says that DD's traits aren't as severe but suspects she could defiantely be mildly affected.