my DH is lebanese and believe me with all my kids i had to struggle to get a name that i could say properly and would cause an uproar if i couldnt... also my dad is maltese and mum is australian so even though my dad could pronounce it right i didnt want my mum to struggle with it... so my DH met me half way... Thank god but i did use some as the middle name so that way every one left me alone.. but at the end of the day it is ur decision and u have to live with it and ur ds also...

Just maybe try and be nice and calm and explain ur outlooks to them and see what happens... as long as ur df is bedise u on it then u have a positive to begin with GL hun