Ds - we had a name picked at 20 weeks and then at 36 weeks I changed my mind when my kiwi friend at work said it and I didn't like how she said it. So I searched for another one and dh agreed.

Dd1 - we tossed up lots of names and then dh suggested mykelti who is an actor from Forrest gump. I liked the sound of how I thought it was pronounced - we then found out it is pronounced Michael t. But we both liked our pronounciation of it and mehkelti stuck.

Dd2 - when she was born, we were naming her airlia. She came out and when I told my sister her name, she said that its too hard to pronounce and we couldn't call her that. So I tossed the name and then the next morning when I was up with the baby at 5am, the sun had just come up and I felt so very blessed and a bit in paradise so Eden came to me. When dh got up I told him what I wanted to call her, he disagreed because its so normal for us LOL eventually he agreed because he couldn't think of anything else that suited.

Dd3 - when we found out she was a girl we knew her name was going to be Calliope lotus. Then on the 3d scan at 37 weeks we felt she didn't look like a Calliope and selected sahti as a back up name - just in case. Luckily we did!

This time we have stopped talking about names and nothing feels right so we are just going to wing it and see what he looks like. Dh and I are pretty respectful of each other though so if one of us hates a name, we just keep looking until we find the right one (or can't find anything else that fits)