dh and I have different methods and his is wrong I like to have a couple of boys names and couple of girls names chosenway before baby due so I can ponder them, then when baby is born decide which name fits.

dh just wants to wait until baby is born and think of one then.

apart from his idea just being dumb, I usually get quite weak after birth and my voice doesn't work properly, and so dh gets a greater say in the decision. he did this first time around with surnames, and ,2nd time around with first and second name (1st I don't mind, 2nd I really dislike). I really don't want to get trampled this time, but trying to get him to engage with name ideas is frustrating. I also don't have many names I love this time, so I would like his input.

so, after that essay, how do you and your partner choose names? ifyou have different styles, how do you work around them?

thanks.