We talk about it from around 20 weeks on. We start with a long list of names that basically meet the criteria of "if we HAD to have this name, due to a curse or something, we'd be fine." We then tend to each pick out our top 10 from those. Last time there were about 4 common names on both our to 10 lists and by 35 weeks we stick with our favourite at that point so as to not have to talk about it any more.

I can imagine deciding after birth but would probably not want to decide for a few days at least. My husband was nameless for a month or so because his parents couldn't agree.