Ok well we had our chat.

I tried to make it as simple as can be. I told her that her daddy loves her very much and it really makes him sad when she says that about him.

I also told her that daddy only smacks when she has done something naughty and if she doesnt do naughty things then she wont get a smack.

I tried explaining to her as well that accidents happen and when that does no one means to hurt her as they said they were sorry.

I have also told her that if she tells these things to people that daddy might get in trouble and she said she didnt want daddy to get into trouble.

Thats really as far as i got with her cause i didnt want to overload her. Will try and keep up the small chats with her to try and get her to understand as its alot for her to take in.