I don't really have any advice to offer, I think some of the other ladies have offered some good advice for you. I am sure that she is just trying to get attention (I wont tell you some of the corkers I used to come out with!), it is a bit hard on your poor DH though. I would be terribly upset if my children were saying things like this about my DH, he wouldn't hurt a fly!

I hope your mummy daughter talk goes well and that it makes a difference. And I hope DH doesn't take it too hard, the poor bugger.