Hey squidipa, sorry, I can't really help you it seems at the moment, Cooper just turned 2 a couple of weeks ago, and I'm still in shock now that the tantrums have started I used to think that perhaps we might miss the tantrums, but no, they hit big time and all at once when he turned 2!!!

Anyway, I was going to say that I can empathise with how difficult it is to have a screaming headache and a screaming child (mind you - i only have one, so I can't imagine!!)

I have suffered headaches almost daily since Cooper was born, and they used to get me down so bad, and it was hard to control my emotions and to even feel in control. It was only about 6 weeks ago, I went and saw a lady who does muscle neurology and I have only had about 3 headaches since I saw her.

Would you like me to speak with her and find out if there is anyone in your area?

Just let me know.