DS was "meant" to be in our room but the first night way so noisy so we put him in the loungeroom which was just outside our room.

DD was in our room for 5 months and DH never complained. He knew that it was much easier for me to feed & get back to sleep with her next to me and he could easily get back to sleep even if she woke him up. If we were having a bad night though I'd take her out to the loungeroom to feed her. It was much easier to settle her too as she was right there.

This bubba will be in our room too for a while, I plan on bfing as long as we can so it makes it much easier on me. Also for the settling factor again, that it's much easier to give them a gentle pat or rock back to sleep instead of being woken right up by having to get out of bed.