Im sorry, but in my house we are in it together. Our girls stay in our room until 1yr+. The night time feeds, dh would get up change nappy and have a cuddle while I went to the loo and then got myself ready for a feed. he then kept me company whilst I fed, especially when i was so sleepy that i was falling asleep. As they got older, dh just got used to it and would sleep through it. If we were more tired than usual, we would go to bed earlier than normal.

As so co-sleeping and feeding when they were on the outside i would lay in the middlee of the bed so it was comfortable and safe to feed. But to be honest i prefer them sleeping on the outside because it means I can get a cuddle from dh and the bub has more room to sleep