My two are 13 months apart. I love them being so close. We have our moments sometimes but I know this will happen with any age gap.

Definately sometimes I worry that either child is missing out on attention. But I do the best I can. I think in some ways it's easier. Because they are sort of into the same things. So I don't have one that is into doing baby things and the other into doing older things IYKWIM. So most times they are both happy fo rme to play on the floor with them, or dance to high 5, which seems to be the fav. at the moment.

Regarding the sleep thing, not a problem at all. Well maybe because my DS is a great baby. He will pretty much any where when he is tired.

Hormones maybe, but I wish I could be pregnant all the time and have as many babies possible. But like you said, it comes down the $ for us. So the two it will be. We still want to travel a far bit, so two close together works well for us with this as well.

So in all, if your up to it, go for it. It's wonderful and busy most times but so rewarding. Good luck.