It is different for every family and I think it also depends on the childrens temprenents. My two are 15.5 months apart ( surprise pregnancy) and to be completely honest I've found it quite difficult. Just with the amount of attention they both needed and only one of me during the day. Nap times are now staring to get better but it was really hard for a while. Ds would keep coming into the room while I was trying to get dd to sleep. Thankfully ds has a bit more understanding now though. Still, they fight like no tomorrow some days. The first 6 months was the hardest. The baby was easy!! It was my ds, he would scream and scream the second I even stood up and was incredibly clingy.
Saying all this though, now that they are at an age were the can play more together it's getting easier and watching them giggling and playing is beautiful. They have their own funny little games that are gorgeous.

Also, i am ttc, so it's not so hard that I'm not willing to go again!


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