yep i agree with Heaven! it is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay easier second time around and definalty much more relaxing!

We have 25mth difference and i think that is great! works perfectly!
Miss B is in her own big girl bed (has been for ages), she is toilet trained, makes her own lunch and gets her own snacks, and puts herself down for her nap, she is very independant which helps HEAPS!

So i think 2yrs is a good age gap for us and like Heaven said i think my 2 will get along fantastically also when they are a bit older. At the moment Miss B is like 2nd mummy to Miss Em, however Miss Em is now on the move and crawling and trying to pull herself up so i am hoping it is only a matter of time and they will be off playing together!

I look forward to hot cuppa coffee's than! heehehehe