We'll i have decided that if i'm getting DD's done that i too will get the second set done... That way i know how she's feeling. Thanks so much for everyones opinions sounds like there is good arguments for both sides and DP and i need to sit down and work out what were going to do. Thanks again.

Also do you recommend the surgical steel studs or the 14k gold ones??? The place i rang said there the best 2 options to go for??? can u buy earings to use in the guns or do u need the prepacked sterile ones??? i noticed they come in the surgical steel and gold but not sure if they are gold plated or the 14k gold???