Like some people here, i have a thing with leaving my children with anyone. but the reason i asked this was because there has only ever been 2 times in 3 years that DH and I have been out together alone. At the moment it feels like we hardly ever see each other because we're attending to our kids or working or being injured. We are only 20, so we have not had time to live out life really yet. Which is why it probably harder on us. So i am still in a pickle as to whether or not i should do this. I mean i love my kids to death but DH and i not having time to oursevles is kinda breaking us apart.