Ah, I've had a fair bit to catch up on!
Congratulations, it sounds like those bubs are settling much quicker and without as many tears.
Probably not much point in answering your question to me now, Spring, but I will anyway
I don't think it is CC when you are there with them - the comfort is there whenever he wants it, so he is 'controlling' the comfort, KWIM?
And I so KWYM about that initial shock that perhaps bubba might settle better out of your arms. It really surprised me when that happened to us.
Here's hoping you guys have found a new, happy bedtime groove