I actually disagree with pushing it further with her given that you know her as ' a lawyer at work' not as a social friend or relative... you brought it up and she wasnt interested... leaving copies on her desk or pushing it further isnt, in my opinion, appropriate in the workplace. that is just my opinion and i do keep my work and private lives relatively seperate..(and i dont know how close you are to her rory but it didnt sound like she really wanted to discuss it all with you from what you wrote)