Kateo, I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. What an utterly devastating experience for you and your partner.
I can see how certain comments on here could hurt your feelings and make you question the choices you made to birth your children. Don't let anybody invalidate your feelings.
I think sometimes, people get a bit defensive and the tone of some replies has been 'well everybody's responsible for being informed and making their own decisions and you don't know if the outcome would have been different or not'...

Yes, sometimes an induction and C/S are required and are the best outcome for mum and/or baby. It's heartbreaking that you didn't get the best outcome for your baby daughter and I wish that somebody at the hospital had picked up on something earlier to have avoided this.