I am so sorry for your loss Kateo. And thankyou for sharing. I am another that believes my c-section is not always a terrible thing, and it possibly saved my DS's life. He was breech, and I decided against trying to breech birth, although my midwives and ob were keen for me to try. When he was born, the cord was wrapped around his neck 3 times and it was a short cord. I always remember my midwife grabbing me and saying "You made the right decision. You were right." and that always makes me at peace with what I decided to do.

xxx