Heys Alice .. sorry this is happening to yourself and your little Peanut. Please go see Legal Aid ASAP and get everything documented. Your personal safety is paramount ... i understand you had these very strong feelings about your X but you are *not* responsible, or at fault, or the cause of his actions, his choices. Things went bad for him because of the way he reacted to these stressors for himself - you are *not* at fault.

Please seek legal assistance. Please keep yourself safe. And enjoy your little Peanut.