Thank you for all replies.

Lady Zaidie - Very true what you say about others not preparred for MY birth, i never actually thought if it on that way. My hubby just wants to go with an ob privately and endure our own first experience. Where as i am gaining all this information from people like yourself, so i can try avoid some of the mistakes made by others, and just getting people who have actually been there's advice to perhaps help me. I am glad you enjoyed your wonderful labour, even if it was lonely.

Tan 2705 - Congrats on the 3rd pregnancy. Thankyou for your story, i like that you included some things that you felt were the downfall, however fesulting in just a graze you must be happy with that.

Neenee - Thankyou for posting a reply. Waterbirthing sounds and looks amazing. Do you wish you's done that first time around. I think it byfar looks like the calmed relaxed way to have to do it. However my hubby does not particularly agree, not to mention my family too. And i am a bit concerned about my first time from home. As in Perth hospital dont really allow waterbirthing (bummer, otherwise that would be the ideal)

Sagrees - Thankyou for replying to my post. I totally agree that not every one is the same, however i was just seemed to be getting a general idea that that was a typical story of many womens experiences. My point was simply when so many women have waterbirths, or birthcenter births and homebirths second and third or more time around, do they wish they did that from the first, or would a waterbirth resulted in a simular result to thier first not so positive experience regardless purely because it was thier first. I dunno, i'm just knew at all this and hoped some peoples experiences might shed a lil bit of tlight into the topic.

I dont know if i what i have written has come across right, but i get what its meant to mean, i hope you guys do too. I dont want anyone to take any offence to anythink or feel as though i'm and generalizing too much, but i guess i kind of am.

Again thanks to all for you help.
Your all wonderful