i had no 3 visitors the day i had him and there were his godfather and his family then my mum and brothers on day 2 i went home on day 3 i liked not beeing crowded out this bub i want dp and me and birth will be announced via sms family can visit day 2 friends day 3 and home visitors after a week i think that seems fair as my first son has special needs and i want to shower him with all my spare attention and energy while i can