I would have to agree with everyone else in saying to see how you feel when the time comes. I wouldn't say I was bored with being in there with ds, (had to stay 4 days ) but I was feeling really closed in and trapped by not being at home in my own space. I pretty much told everyone I wasn't feeling well enough for visitors (more like ones I didn't want to put up with while feeling trapped already) and only asked a few close friends up for visits to keep my sanity as DS's father left straight after the birth before DS was even cleaned up and didn't come back for 2 days when he sobered up!
Then once I got home, 2 weeks later, I had a Sat afternoon BBQ kind of thing and had all the visitors in 1 go. They stayed for about 3-4 hours but DS went down in his bed only about an hour after they arrived and anyone that wanted to see him after that had to just quietly look but not touch IYKWIM? expartner was VERY firm on no-one holding him but for him it was just another power trip to boost his ego.
This time, I'm hoping to only stay for the min time then go home and I'm not worried about visitors, Everyone knows to call first so if we don't want any, will just tell them it's not a good time and when it would be better. Will do the BBQ thing again though and lots of cuddles over and done with in 1 go, on 1 day! Cause this time I have a VERY proud DH eager to show her off !
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