Thanks you all so much for all the support that you have given me. You have all given me alot to think about and some stratagies to start the healing process.
Just wanted to add that you aren'y alone in feeling this! I too am soon to start TTC after an unwanted c-section (abeit two years later) and am also grappling with how a different birth will make bubs no.2 different from bubs no.1! Already feeling guilt again! Deep down I know it's silly to think that the way one is born could affect my relationship with them. But then, why do I want a natural birth so much!!
It's good that you're looking to work through this reasonably quickly. It's not something that goes away, so it would be good to be at peace with it all before no.2 comes along.
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