With number 2. I totally understand DD was due around MIL's birthday so I really didn't want to give birth then. Not much you can do but hope that will power is enough to keep Bub not coming on that day.

As for the first point it's really sad that your family see your pregnancy like that after all it's not your fault and not like you got pregnant to intentionally hurt them. Sad really, hopefully they will come around once bub is born.


Turns out I had no advice sorry