Sirenz,
I truly believe what you feel when yu are in labour is different for every woman and very dependent on how safe you feel.

For me the pain of contractions was really manageable. I have had very very active labours which I think is really important. Lots of squatting through the contraction while holding on to bars, cupboards, chairs etc. I have also used water submersion which I cannot recommend highly enough. Getting into that tub is like a hot chocolate on a cold night. It is heaven. I also used the shower on my belly and back.

It's also important to use your mouth. Tight mouths are tight fanny's. You need to have loose lips and you will have a loose cervix (I believe). The noises we make. If they are too high we feel more pain. If they are low we are working our bodies. These things help us to feel powerful and in control of the experience.

Having a support person who can bring you down from a high pitched voice. Remind you that you may like to squat, bounce, immerse yourself in water is invaluable.

The contractions for me are something I have always been able to manage. I always struggle a bit during transition. My husband describes me as a restless lioness. I can't get comfy. I can't stand touch or noise of any decibel! I need dark, quiet. I find "the burning" of the head crowning both intolerable and welcome. I know that sounds wierd but it's true. I know I have to push thru that and I will see my little Blessing... But to get to that point takes courage, letting go and guts! For me... My second stages are pretty short but it's where I struggle some.

It's great that you ask this question. Because it does hurt. But it is the most exhilarating hurt I have ever felt. After all of my births I just think "wow I can do anything now".

Wishing you a beautiful birth. Make sure you come back to this thread and tell us how your birth was for you...